zaterdag 28 mei 2016

Goodbye You are perfect in every way and perfect for me every day We both know that our love's fate I can say is meet me at the heavenly gate I'm using my last love breath for you Because my love is true and true Just talk to me before our love die Or look at me and forever say Goodbye


vrijdag 27 mei 2016

My love , I wish you a lifetime of love happiness that never ends songs of laugher warmth of family and firends I wish you days that are bright and filled with dreams a world of faith and hope and joy that's everlasting I wish you constant peace and good days ahead you deserve this and more Honey , breath , sweet love. With kiss and hugs I love you forever Your lover !

Conscious Relationships

We are approaching a period of time when relationships are ready to go through a major redesign. The current paradigm isn’t working. People are unsatisfied in love; people don’t know how to make relationships work.

And, believe it or not, this isn’t a bad thing. Because when systems break-down, that’s when they change. I believe that’s what’s happening in the area of intimate partnership. The break-down is forcing us to move towards conscious love.

So what exactly is a conscious relationship?

It's a romantic relationship in which both partners feel committed to a sense of purpose, and that purpose is growth. Individual growth. Collective growth as a couple. Growth that makes the world a better place.

As of now, most people get into relationships to satisfy their own personal needs. This might work for a few years, but eventually the relationship fails us, and we end up unsatisfied as a result.

But when two people come together with the intention of growth, the relationship strives towards something much greater than gratification. The partnership becomes a journey of evolution, and the two individuals have an opportunity to expand more than they could alone. Deep satisfaction and long-term fulfillment arise as a result.

The conscious couple is not attached to the outcome of the relationship - growth comes first.

The conscious couple values growth more than anything else because they know this is the secret to keeping the relationship alive. Even though growth is scary (because it takes us into the unknown), the couple is willing to strive towards expansion, even at the risk of out-growing the relationship. Because of this, the relationship maintains a natural feeling of aliveness, and love between the couple does, too.

Each person in the relationship is committed to owning their s#*t.

Conscious couples know that we all have wounds from the past, and they understand that these wounds will inevitably be triggered, especially in a relationship. In other words, they expect to feel abandoned, trapped, rejected, overlooked and any other shitty feeling that arises when we bond closely with another person.

The conscious couple is willing to look at their past and current issues in relationships because they know that by facing these beliefs systems, they can evolve into a new relationship-reality. Dysfunctional patterns will dissolve, but only when we take responsibility for them, first.

In a conscious relationship, there’s room to feel anything. Not only that, there’s room to express those feelings and fantasies to your partner. This is edgy territory… it’s not easy to do. But it’s also one of the most healing things we can experience in a partnership

It’s rare to be completely honest about who you are, and to stretch yourself to let your partner do the same. You may not like what you hear; in fact, it may trigger the hell out of you. But you’re willing to be triggered if it means your partner can be authentic.

The relationship is a place to practice love.

Love, ultimately, is a practice. A practice of acceptance, being present, forgiveness, and stretching your heart into vulnerable territories.

Sometimes we treat love like it’s a destination. We want that peak feeling all the time, and when it’s not there, we’re not satisfied with what the relationship has become. In my mind, this is missing the whole point of love.

Love is a journey and an exploration. It’s showing up for all varied nuances of your relationship and asking yourself, What would love do here?” The answer will be different every time, and because of this, you’ll get to grow in ways you never have before!

The conscious couple is fiercely committed to being the embodiment of love. And through their devotion and practice, love shows up in their lives and relationship in ways they would’ve never imagined before.



dinsdag 24 mei 2016

I know there may be universes out there where I made different choices and they led me somewhere else, led me to someone else. And my heart breaks for every single version of me that didn’t end up with you.


vrijdag 20 mei 2016

You won’t be her first love. But maybe, if you’re lucky, you can be her last.
She has already felt the highs and lows that love has to offer. She has experienced every shade of every emotion that life could throw at her.

She is a challenge—a work-in-progress of sorts. But if you are willing to step up to the plate and love her right, the girl with the complicated past could be the best thing that ever happened to you. Here’s why:

She isn’t going to be the woman that up and leaves you for someone else, because once she knows what she wants and finds it, she isn’t going to let it go.

She will be gentle with your heart, because she knows what it feels like to have her heart’s well-being completely disregarded.

When she finds a man who appreciates her, she will love him with every ounce of her being. She knows what it feels like to be with someone who doesn’t appreciate her, so when she comes across a man who does she won’t let him go. She’ll appreciate him even more, because she has spent time with the wrong men.

She knows what she deserves.

She refuses to be your doormat or your emotional dumping ground; she will challenge you. She will make you a better partner—and a stronger man.

She will never need you—she is strong and self-sufficient—but, she will want you.

Her love is the life-long kind.
When she finds what she is looking for, it’s game over. She isn’t looking to play immature games with your heart. She is looking for something real, something that she can honor and cherish.
When she finds it, she holds on.

She will challenge you. She will frustrate you. She will make you earn her trust, and won’t give away any pieces of herself for free. She will be guarded, but once you break through her walls you will see all that she is. Like at the end of a difficult hike, once you arrive at the destination you will be able to stand back and admire the beauty around you.

Her past heartbreaks have built her into the beautifully strong woman now standing in front of you.



donderdag 19 mei 2016

You're beautiful,' I said, all breathy and nervous. 'You could be standing in the centre of a star and still be all I see...


woensdag 11 mei 2016

Give me a kiss and I’ll serenade you among the stars. Give me your love and I will pluck each star to set at your feet.


dinsdag 10 mei 2016

Wait for someone who could be the moon for you. Just as strong, just as steady, illuminating changes and seas and blooming flowers and summer nights. They'd wait for you in the dark. They'd dance around the sun. They'd receive your primal howls, your secrets, your dreams, and shifting tides.
Wait for the moon. Wait for nothing less than what steals your breath. What breaks you open. What lures your soul. What helps you rise.


vrijdag 6 mei 2016

Wait for the man who can touch you without using his hands, who can speak to you without saying a word, who can open you up and take you to places you never knew existed simply by being his authentic, conscious, magnificent self.

Don't settle, conscious love is worth the wait. 


donderdag 5 mei 2016

There was always something you gave a higher priority than her. Whether it was the money, your career, or your friends ... there was always something. All the conversations that she tried to have, but you refused to hear ... all the evenings she wanted to spend time with you, but you were too busy. Everything...gone! And now, you can’t sleep at night...you can’t eat...you walk around like everything is alright while you fall apart inside.
My friend, let go of your pride and realize that you can never truly be the right man for a good woman until you are willing to change you first, at least at the foundation, before you go out and find her. There’s always room to grow, but if you do it the other way around, there’s a good chance that you’ll hurt her so much in the process, that she’ll have no choice but to leave long before you’re able to complete the change.
That's a lose-lose situation. You lose a good woman and she loses the good man you could have been had you just worked on you before you came looking for her.