You won’t be her first love. But maybe, if you’re lucky, you can be her last.
She has already felt the highs and lows that love has to offer. She has experienced every shade of every emotion that life could throw at her.

She is a challenge—a work-in-progress of sorts. But if you are willing to step up to the plate and love her right, the girl with the complicated past could be the best thing that ever happened to you. Here’s why:

She isn’t going to be the woman that up and leaves you for someone else, because once she knows what she wants and finds it, she isn’t going to let it go.

She will be gentle with your heart, because she knows what it feels like to have her heart’s well-being completely disregarded.

When she finds a man who appreciates her, she will love him with every ounce of her being. She knows what it feels like to be with someone who doesn’t appreciate her, so when she comes across a man who does she won’t let him go. She’ll appreciate him even more, because she has spent time with the wrong men.

She knows what she deserves.

She refuses to be your doormat or your emotional dumping ground; she will challenge you. She will make you a better partner—and a stronger man.

She will never need you—she is strong and self-sufficient—but, she will want you.

Her love is the life-long kind.
When she finds what she is looking for, it’s game over. She isn’t looking to play immature games with your heart. She is looking for something real, something that she can honor and cherish.
When she finds it, she holds on.

She will challenge you. She will frustrate you. She will make you earn her trust, and won’t give away any pieces of herself for free. She will be guarded, but once you break through her walls you will see all that she is. Like at the end of a difficult hike, once you arrive at the destination you will be able to stand back and admire the beauty around you.

Her past heartbreaks have built her into the beautifully strong woman now standing in front of you.

'Come take my hand, You should know me, I've always been in your mind, You know that I'll be kind I'll be guiding you'... Yet, if anyone is like me, keep discovering, and you will realise that, if the words were lost before, it will come back to you. I believe that that itself is magical. When you are ready and opening your heart to listen, the message of your Voice will speak, when you least expect. Trust in the child in you. Allow, the freedom deserved of that child, for it will bring much beauty.

We try so hard to hide everything we’re really feeling from those who probably need to know our true feelings the most.

It is Your Smile on your lips bright Yes, it's your smile coming from your heart it gets to me every time the all joy and happiness It speaks to me all the poems of love tenderness telling me that you're mine in every time forever It's your smile on your face reflecting your feelings it warms my feelings of love from heart before mind that ever grows our love touching our hearts and souls It's your smile the all reasons of being alive in life I'll cherish it always as precious token of love. I am so lucky to have your smiles on your lovely eyes```

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. 

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

~ Oprah Winfrey ~

I truly believe that the most successful relationships are the ones where both partners have authentically worked on their own self-development. No games, no blaming and no drama whatsoever. Just a genuine partnership where both parties know who they are and what they want.
In order to stop the cycle of failed relationships, we need to start working on ourselves.
For years I heard the notion “to love others, you should love yourself first.” Frankly, I never really understood it, until recently. Loving ourselves signifies taking care of our own happiness. Relationships can be tough to maintain, and they often have a great deal of suffering included with them. Every relationship experiences some form argument, which in return will unleash negativity. If we love ourselves, we try not to allow our negativity to affect us in a non-constructive way. When we do this, we are indirectly reflecting our own light to our partner. We love ourselves, and we love our partner.